Tag: reflection

  • A Season for Rest

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    Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

    Matthew 11:28-29

    It’s cold outside, which isn’t necessarily a given on these winter days in southern Texas. The trees have lost their leaves, and there is a general sense of dreariness outdoors, but I don’t mind it. Not this year, at least. This type of weather reminds me of my need to do what much of nature is doing on this side of the hemisphere—rest.

    Both Sunday school and the church service touched on this theme over a week ago, and I’m finding it in the verses I’ve been reading during my quiet time as of late.

    Cease from striving. Be still and know that He is God. Rest in Him.

    I generally jump into each new year with a lot of zest and a list of goals that I tend to only half-finish. This year, not only did I make the big list of goals, but I also started packing in anticipation of our move come May.

    A few weeks later, however, I’ve found myself scaling back on all the things I want to accomplish this year, and I’ve already unpacked some of the items I had stored away. The truth is, after a busy fall semester of book readings and farmers markets and all the daily tasks as a wife and mom, I’m tired, and I need a break.

    As I find myself in this slower season, I see God’s wisdom to have created this world with physical seasons—seasons to rest, to plant, to nurture and grow, and then to reap a harvest. And as I consider these seasons, I can’t help but think that our lives ought to follow a similar pattern too.

    We certainly see these different seasons in our lives at different times. As I grow older, however, I’m finding beauty in the idea of starting the new year at a slower pace, with lots of time to reflect on the past year and to prayerfully consider what God might desire for me this new year. To rest, just like nature is doing now.

    There will be plenty of time to tackle the projects ahead and to pack and prepare for a move come this spring. Perhaps the best way to prepare for the busyness ahead, however, is to find rest in the LORD and to physically rest as I commune with Him this winter season. After all, God created each physical season on purpose and for a reason. If the winter season that nature is given helps to lead to greater growth in the spring, then how much more do we need that time of rest and restoration so that we can experience abundant growth in our own personal seasons of spring! Let’s not take for granted the winter seasons God gives us. They happen to us on purpose and for a reason. Let’s take advantage of them to rest, reflect, and deepen our relationship with God.

    For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”

    Ecclesiastes 3:1 ESV

  • Reflection Questions for the New Year

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    Last year, my sister and brother-in-law stayed at our place to bring in the new year, so I made a nice brunch and came up with a list of questions for us to answer so we could reflect on the past year and prepare for the one ahead. The idea was for each person to take a card with a question written on it and then for each individual to answer the question they had drawn. In the end, however, we all answered each question, finishing the “game” well after brunch in the comfort of my living room as we sipped what was left of our coffee. No one complained about how long this activity took, however. Answering these questions and getting the chance to reflect upon the year and what we anticipated in the new one together was really delightful. So delightful,  in fact, that I knew I needed to keep these questions and use them again for the following year.

    This year, we won’t have any special visitors on New Year’s Eve (or day), and since my husband is not a morning person, we won’t start off the day answering these questions as a family either. Still, I’ll try to make a special breakfast for my boys and ask the eldest the questions he’ll most enjoy answering. Then, I’ll find some time to personally reflect in the days to follow, thinking about these questions and reminiscing over the best moments of this past year.

    As we bid farewell to this year and prepare ourselves for the one ahead, I hope the following questions can be of service to you as they have been to me. May God bless you and keep you in this coming year. And may we seek after Him more than ever! Happy New Year!

    Reflection Questions:

    1. What was the best thing about last year?
    2. What was most challenging?
    3. Where did you see growth (spiritually and otherwise)?
    4. What new thing did you experience?
    5. What was your favorite place to visit?
    6. What was something you were happy to    accomplish?
    7. What was your favorite moment with family?
    8. What made you most proud of your spouse, children, etc?
    9. What was one of the funniest moments of the year?
    10. What was your favorite song last year?
    11. How would you describe the year in one word?

    New Year Questions

    1. What are you looking forward to this year?
    2. What do you anticipate potentially being a challenge?
    3. What do you hope to learn?
    4. How do you hope to grow (spiritually and otherwise)?
    5. What goals do you hope to accomplish?
    6. How would you hope to describe this year in one word?

    You crown the year with Your goodness, And Your paths drip with abundance.”
    Psalms 65:11 NKJV